You CANNOT reserve a seat in a ceremony without having FIRST: Submitted your application, RECEIVED your acceptance letter, and having PURCHASED your Membership. You also CANNOT reserve a seat for someone who has not submitted their application, received their acceptance letter, and PURCHASED their Membership. Membership IS NOT INCLUDED in the ceremony seat.
Trusting the Chaos
Trusting the chaos is hard to become comfortable with, but once you do freedom is a constant companion.